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Radical Honesty
Part of 7/17

’s best friend and now it’s time to come clean. You might think that being honest would simply mean telling your husband that basic fact. You’d probably then have a fight about it and end up resenting each other maybe forever.
But radical honesty is different. It means being real – uncomfortably real – right down to the smallest detail.
The key message here is: Radical honesty means telling the whole truth no matter how uncomfortable that is.
Radical honesty means sitting your husband down and telling him everything including how many times you had sex whether you had orgasms what you did afterward how much you enjoyed it and so on. Simply telling your husband the basic details isn’t enough – unless he has the full picture of what the experience was you’re keeping things back from him.
This is because of moralism again. Usually when conversations about this sort of thing take place people use evaluative language – they talk in terms of rights and wrongs. The more honest approach is