Human Nature

2021-07-25 21:16:20 𝖳𝗈𝗉 𝖢𝗁𝖺𝗇𝗇𝖾𝗅𝗌 𝖮𝗇 𝖳𝖾𝗅𝖾𝗀𝗋𝖺𝗆

Powered By :- @LightPromotion
༺═─────────────────═༻

@brightside_1
@deep_thoughtsx
@Craziwa
@Laws_of_Human_Nature
@profile_pictures_TM
@newwallp
@cool_thoughts
@bookstoretelegram
@best_daily_quotes
@scifi_moviees
@theweekndupdates
@Meri_Bestie
@tentacionniggas

༺═─────────────────═༻
1𝗁𝗋 𝖮𝗇 𝖳𝗈𝗉 𝖺𝗇𝖽 24𝗁𝗋𝗌 𝖨𝗇 𝖳𝗁𝖾 𝖢𝗁𝖺𝗇𝗇𝖾𝗅
5k+ 𝖫𝗂𝗀𝗁𝗍 𝖯𝗋𝗈𝗆𝗈𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇 Open / Comment

2021-07-24 12:23:17 #HumanNature

DESIRABILITY

We are social creatures, and are immensely influenced by the tastes and desires of other people. Imagine a large social gathering. You see a man alone, whom nobody talks to for any length of time, and who is wandering around without company; isn't there a kind of self-fulfilling isolation about him? Why is he alone, why is he avoided? There has to be a reason. Until someone takes pity on this man and starts up a conversation with him, he will look unwanted and unwantable. But over there, in another corner, is a woman surrounded by people. They laugh at her remarks, and as they laugh, others join the group, attracted by its gaiety. When she moves around, people follow. Her face is glowing with attention. There has to be a reason.

In both cases, of course, there doesn't actually have to be a reason at all. The neglected man may have quite charming qualities, supposing you ever talk to him; but most likely you won't. Desirability is a social illusion. Its source is less what you say or do, or any kind of boasting or self-advertisement, than the sense that other people desire you. To turn your targets' interest into something deeper, into desire, you must make them see you as a person whom others cherish and covet. Desire is both imitative (we like what others like) and competitive (we want to take away from others what they have). As children, we wanted to monopolize the attention of a parent, to draw it away from other siblings. This sense of rivalry pervades human desire, repeating throughout our lives. Make people compete for your attention, make them see you as sought after by everyone else. The aura of desirability will envelop you.

PS: Do not swallow the easy moralism of the day, which urges honesty at the expense of desirability. Go in the opposite direction. With so few people out there who understand the art of desirability, it affords you endless opportunities to shine and exploit people’s repressed fantasies.

━━━━━━ ━━━━━━━
@Laws_of_Human_Nature Open / Comment

2021-07-20 16:01:22 Best Channels Of This Week
Powered By :- @promotions_s
༺═─────────────────═༻
~> @Science012
~> @Useless_Minds
~> @dirtymuch
~> @musiclyricsforeasy
~> @feelingsworldx
~> @anxieth
~> @glory_glory_man_united1
~> @Laws_of_Human_Nature
~> @Quotesfreaky
~> @Cool_thoughts
~> @dreamworth
~> @jockers_42
~> @X_Wallpaperss
༺═─────────────────═༻
1hr Top and 12 hours in Channel Open / Comment

2021-07-20 14:01:43 Secret Unheard Facts
Amazing Physics Facts Open / Comment

2021-07-16 15:37:02 #Rationality

Accept People as Fact

Interactions with people are the major source of emotional turmoil, but it doesn’t have to be that way. The problem is that we are continually judging people, wishing they were something that they are not. We want to change them. We want them to think and act a certain way, most often the way we think and act. And because this is not possible, because everyone is different, we are continually frustrated and upset. Instead, see other people as phenomena, as neutral as comets or plants. They simply exist. They come in all varieties, making life rich and interesting. Work with what they give you, instead of resisting and trying to change them. Make understanding people a fun game, the solving of puzzles. It is all part of the human comedy. Yes, people are irrational, but so are you. Make your acceptance of human nature as radical as possible. This will calm you down and help you observe people more dispassionately, understanding them on a deeper level. You will stop projecting your own emotions on to them. All of this will give you more balance and calmness, more mental space for thinking.

Approach in all cases by imagining that each person, no matter how twisted, has a reason for what they’ve become, a logic that makes sense to them. In their own way, they are striving for fulfillment, but irrationally. By stepping back and imagining their story from the inside, demythologized the brutes and aggressors; you cut them down to human size. They no longer elicited hatred but rather pity. You must think more like a writer in approaching the people you deal with, even the worst sorts.

━━━━━━ ━━━━━━━
@Laws_of_Human_Nature Open / Comment

2021-07-12 16:18:20 #LifeStrategy

Making Good Decision: Increase your reaction time - Learn to Step Back

This power comes through practice and repetition. When some event or interaction requires a response, you must train yourself to step back. This could mean physically removing yourself to a place where you can be alone and not feel any pressure to respond. Or it could mean writing that angry email but not sending it. You sleep on it for a day or two. You do not make phone calls or communicate while feeling some sudden emotion, particularly resentment. If you find yourself rushing to commit to people, to hire or be hired by them, step back and give it a day. Cool the emotions down. The longer you can take the better, because perspective comes with time. Consider this like resistance training—the longer you can resist reacting, the more mental space you have for actual reflection, and the stronger your mind will become.

PS: In making decisions under conditions of uncertainty, the consequences must dominate the probabilities. We never know the future

━━━━━━ ━━━━━━━
@Laws_of_Human_Nature Open / Comment

2021-07-09 14:47:23 #Random

Murphy's Laws

• Anything that can go wrong will go wrong.

• Nothing is as easy as it looks.

• Everything takes longer than you think it will.

• If there is a possibility of several things going wrong, the one that will cause the most damage will be the one to go wrong.

• If there is a worse time for something to go wrong, it will happen then.

• If anything simply cannot go wrong, it will anyway.

• If you perceive that there are four possible ways in which a procedure can go wrong, and circumvent these, then a fifth way, unprepared for, will promptly develop.

• Left to themselves, things tend to go from bad to worse.

• If everything seems to be going well, you have obviously overlooked something.

• Nature always sides with the hidden flaw

━━━━━━ ━━━━━━━
@Laws_of_Human_Nature Open / Comment