THE HUSBAND HASTILY DIVORCING HIS WIFE Some husbands, they do | Beneficial Books

THE HUSBAND HASTILY DIVORCING HIS WIFE

Some husbands, they do not have any patience, nor any deliberation. They are quick to act and they become enraged quickly. In reality, this type of man needs a muzzle on his mouth, and he needs to learn deliberation and patience. He must learn that marital life is not [always] a bed of beautiful flowers, and that it is not [always] fertile earth and moist land; rather, there are thorns in the path, and there are floods and mountains.

It is upon the man to embody the role Allāh has placed him in, so he does not display haste, nor does he become irate. He must be forbearing, patient, measured and seek the aid of Allāh. He is not rash. Anger does not bring forth good.

Therefore, as long as Allāh has placed divorce in your hand, O slave of Allāh, then you be as great as the responsibility.

Book: Divorce Its Reasons and Its Cures
By Shaykh Abū Furayhān Jamāl Ibn Furayhān al-Hārithī
Translated by Jamil Finch
Hikmah Publications
P. 31