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The Enneagram at Work
Part of 16/21

which transformed the young wizards’ worst nightmares – like a giant spider – into humorous forms – like that spider on roller skates. First identify your fear. Then direct your attention to the issue and quietly say “Riddikulus” until you’ve cracked a smile.
Failure is another big fear. But let’s compare breaking your leg in a skiing accident to getting fired or missing a promotion. With one you go to the hospital get a cast and take time to heal. With the other you beat yourself up go into denial or act out in rage. How does that make any sense? 
When you fail which is in itself a subjective term rejuvenation should be your priority. The best way to fire up this process is by tapping into your three centers of intelligence: practice compassion in your Heart Brain use your Head Brain to rationally contemplate what happened and gear up your Gut Brain to move forward. 
The day McPartlin got fired from his position as a hotel general manager forever changed the course of his life – fo