Can love be something you can just choose? I mean, can’t we j | DeepThoughts

Can love be something you can just choose?

I mean, can’t we just choose somebody who we think will not hurt us, who we think will love us unconditionally, someone who we can rely to and trust without worrying she will hurt you or even cheat on you. I think that will be easier, I think choosing the person who we think could love us better is easier than choosing someone who doesn’t even give us attention.

That’s the thing about us, humans, we tend to choose the person who doesn’t even care, who doesn’t even look at us, and what more is that person doesn’t even feel the same way. Isn’t it unfair? I don’t know if that is even the right word. I guess loving someone doesn’t always mean it has to be mutual. I guess some of us choose the longer route and that includes pain, unrequited love, one sided feelings and devastation.

If only we can choose the one we love, if only we could make our lives easier by choosing someone who loves us more, if only the person we love loves us back, if only life could make its way to us and tell us who to love without feeling pained. If only.