What is it like to be in a toxic relationship? There are ups | DeepThoughts

What is it like to be in a toxic relationship?

There are ups and downs in a relationship. It’s impossible to stay in consistent excitement. Sometimes your relationship crash. Sometimes it grows. That’s the thing about being in a relationship. It constantly evolves.

However, when there’s an obvious imbalance of energy between the two person in the relationship, it’s a redflag. Hanging fights become the norm. Even discussing doesn’t make things any better.

Being in a toxic relationship is damaging. It takes away your happiness. It tarnishes your self esteem. It brings your insecurities to another level. It happens easily, even to the strongest people.

You keep on hurting each other. Even over the littlest thing. You find yourself in a countless arguments instead of trying to discuss to find a solution. Being in love should make you happy, but you’re drained instead. Mentally, emotionally even physically.

You start to question, is it better to stay or leave? Staying makes you suffer, but you’re scared of the idea to be alone, to wake up with the new life without them.

But is it worth it to live in a constant nervousness? To live wondering what is there left between you and your partner. To wonder where are they when you need them. To carry all of the heaviness in your head, letting every aspect of you die with the dying of your love?

You look awful that way. I hope you will think further of what is better for you. I hope you’re gonna stop to drink your own tears and find your own strength to choose yourself.

Sometimes it’s better safe than sorry. It’s better to let go than to live in suffer. You have the power to decide. Choose your own happiness. Even it is pain before happiness.