My problem is with society, exactly with my family... I feel a | HeartCouncil

My problem is with society, exactly with my family... I feel as if they are backward... A society that clings to destructive customs and traditions and avoids what God and His Messenger brought.. For example: while there are those who do what is forbidden.  They refuse halal.  While my fiancé wants to hold our marriage contract, my family refuses, due to customs and traditions, that do not allow the marriage contract to take place for a long period of time.. even though it is a traditional marriage, no one knows the other.  Although my fiancé does not know him and he does not know me, and this is not fair.  Also, my family wants me to marry this person according to the specified date, but they refuse to hold our marriage contract or to communicate with his sisters.

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