What are #boundaries and why do we need them?
Most of us have developed a people-pleasing way of life because we've not been taught how to say no.
Setting boundaries set the stage for guiding you towards what you want and who you want to become.
It is a sign of appreciation for the relationships you are holding. The most important relationship being the one with yourself.
Setting boundaries take time and energy to create and reinforce so it should not be confused with an act of defence. In some sense, it is a way of protecting yourself. But the approach should be out of love for yourself, not fear. When we set boundaries out of love, they look like a well-maintained garden fence. It is a clear demarcation of areas that are welcomed by the public. But if we do it out of fear, it becomes a fortress.
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