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What Happens to a Child's Emotional Development When Parents Only Focus On Positive Thinking

There is one aspect of this resurrected positive psychology that is simply left out. We want our children to be happy, this is understandable. It is hard for us when they are upset, sad, etc. And at first glance, it may seem that if we focus on the positive, “sunny” side of life, if a child learns to think correctly, he will learn to feel correctly, so you need to focus on the positive, on positive feelings.

The problem is that it doesn't work that way. We must accept ALL children's emotions in order for development to proceed properly, for children to be emotionally healthy. After all, if you say to children: “Calm down!” or that they should not be upset or angry, then they will also lose the ability to feel delight, joy. After all, they are all parts of one whole. Therefore, we should not divide emotions into positive and negative. There should be a place for ALL emotions, ALL. Children need space, they need freedom to develop, including emotionally.

It's a very intuitive understanding. Joy often comes after shedding tears. It is impossible to make you rejoice when you want to cry. You can't go there directly. And if you give space for anger, discontent, let them be, then they will simply dissipate, disappear. But the more you fight with them, the more the child will get stuck in them.

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