So this isn’t actually a confession please. Just wondering abo | A Hoe's Confession

So this isn’t actually a confession please. Just wondering about something and want opinions. So all my female friends I’m really close with that are dating seriously and are committed in their relationship and are really in love with their partners don’t tend to ask anything from them or find it very difficult to do so even if it’s so important. They instead ask me for help, if I say they should ask their bfs, they claim they just can’t. It makes me question ,so does it mean if a lady is really committed and really in love with you she can’t or will find it difficult to ask you for something? But also taking it from a perspective of a lady trying to share her problems with her partner and wanting her partner share his with her and working together and helping each other and improving effective communication and the relationship as a whole, pretty much isn’t a bad idea or doesn’t really mean she isn’t in love or committed to him. So I just got stuck in a dilemma.
What do y’all think about this whole thing ?