Pls post gimme My fiancee and I planned to get married July th | A Hoe's Confession

Pls post gimme
My fiancee and I planned to get married July this year. We haven't made it official but we just told few people about it. I budgeted 30000 for the wedding but my fiancee said she wants a big wedding so the budget went up to 50000 I told her it's too much but she started complaining that I don't care about her happiness and stuff...I didn't want any argument and I told her I'll do it for her.. surprisingly she only contributed 3500 cedis to the wedding...now I work a job that pays me 2300 a month..I got a connection at the ministry's that will pay 5600 but I have to pay an amount of 10000 for connection before I get the job. It's guaranteed that I'll get the job cus I spoke to the head of the department I'll be working at if I pay the amount at the ministry's.
I told my fiancee that I want to use 10000 from the wedding money to get a new job and make more money so let's change the wedding period to October...
My fiancee got to mad that she started calling me a cheat and that I don't want to marry her and I just want to make her friends make mockery of her..
She called her mother and started saying all manner of things
Seriously I don't see anything wrong with the decision I decided to take cus I think it's best for us all
Or is it that I'm about to Marry the wrong person..
I'm confused

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