For a man, love is respect
You are not his mother and not a nanny, so you do not need to give him money, look for a job for him, take loans. Respect his strength, he will come to his senses and cope with everything himself, becoming only stronger in the process.
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And I'm not saying that a man does not need to be supported. Support is just what is needed and important.
But it should be just support, and not a solution to his problems for him, unless, of course, you want an affair with a child!