Just always choose to be the better person. A better person than the projections and reflections shown to you. Ultimately they are about you. They are always showing you who you are and where you are at your journey.
Make your intentions pure. What and who you are is what you will attract, what you will mantain. Pain is inevitable and it will always exist but if you focus on understanding what you are feeling and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.
You are here to accept and overcome in the same time your human condition.