Things we think we are doing right, but not actually People | Self Education
Things we think we are doing right, but not actually
People tend to make mistakes and there's nothing wrong about it. Moreover, sometimes we think that we're doing everything perfect, but in reality some things that you find obvious and easy to understand give you wrong glimpse about how certain things should be done.
The more effort you make to impress people, the less impressed they are
When you're trying to hard to impress people, you are likely to show your true self. Most people can not control this process, so people will find you insincere and get bored later on.
The harder you try to achieve your goal, the harder it will be to get it
People really like to think about things as something really unreachable and difficult. The less you think about the solving process, the faster you will do it. It's not something that is really hard to do, it's just quiet complicated trick that our brain likes to do with us, because every negative thought gives you unnesecessary details on which we spend a lot of focus which we're lacking pf indeed.
The more small talks you do on the Internet, the more useless your conversations are
Having thousands of aquantiances online has really good outlook. Nevertheless, benefit that you can get from those "friends" is pretty low. Rather than talking with 15 people at the same time without any progress in conversation, you can talk just with a couple of people, thus you'll be more into conversation and get some useful information or maybe a future business partner.
More information about why we do a lot of things wrong you can find here: Link
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