2021-06-24 12:26:08
I can't sleep so let me share my 2 cents.
I don't really know who needs to hear this but, oldies and kiddo listen...
If you are friends with some people and they suddenly tell that they don't wanna be friends with you anymore (also applicable if they ghosted you) coz they find you sensitive or for whatever reason,
Tell them -
"It's okay no problem, it's totally fine. You may find me sensitive (or whatever reason) coz I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Thank you so much for letting me know."
But ofcourse, if somebody treats you like a trash, you don't go back. There is always a line and if somebody crosses that, it's okay to cut-off ties with them.
We should always remember that we should not be liked by everyone, that is a falsehood. This is not a negativity, but reality check- not all people are going to like you regardless of what you do.
I'm not saying it's necessary but it would be great if we can be kind and loving to everyone. It's our job to teach ourselves (or the people younger than us) to extend grace and kindness to others. We should love, lift and empower each other.
All of us should learn and accept the fact that it is okay not to be accepted by everyone.
We are are not supposed to be perfect anyway but I believe that we all deserve to be happy.
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