2021-10-14 06:39:51
Radical Honesty
Part of 9/17
onducts the author recommends the same approach. To work through problems like this the solution is simply being honest.
One of the biggest things we repress of course is anger. So let’s take a look at it.
Holding on to your anger isn’t noble self-sacrifice – it’s just repression.
You’ve probably heard some version of this story: An enemy soldier throws a grenade into a camp. One soldier dives on top of the grenade helmet first. He dies but everyone else survives.
He’s a hero right? Sure. But not every act of self-sacrifice is heroic.
Like the soldier covering up the grenade you probably cover up your anger sometimes absorbing the full force of it when it explodes inside you. This can seem like the noble thing to do as if you’re sparing other people.
But unlike the heroic soldier you’re actually being foolish. You need to let your anger out – not just for your own good but for the sake of those around you too.
The key message here is: Holding on to your anger isn’t noble sel
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