How to break up if you continue to love your partner: 4 tips from a lawyer1. Don't be guided by resentment
Anger and resentment is one of the phases of goodbye you need to go through. However, your aggression will not bring your partner back, it will make it harder for you to find common ground and come to compromise with him.
2. Don't fuel the conflict.
Try to create a calm atmosphere and start a dialogue. Your partner's decision may seem final, but all they probably want is to get their old relationship back.
3. Step out of your usual role.
Think about how you behave in an argument situation. Often the roles are distributed quite clearly: one partner is the accuser, the other is trying to defend himself.
4. Think about what the relationship is for.
It happens that we love not so much a partner as family status, a sense of security and stability, which it brings. The other party sensitively reads this, even if we are not aware of our own motivation.
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