If you want to be happy, stop controlling EVERYTHING.No, I'm not calling you for chaos.
Just stop demanding anything from your loved ones and persuading them that things should be the way you want them to be.You've been asking your husband to fix a leaking faucet for three months, but it led to nothing - so you get annoyed.
Or, for example, you ask your son to turn off the computer, but he doesn't quit the game all day long - you panic .
The key is that as long as you push someone, nothing will change. In the first case it is important to focus attention on yourself, in the second - on the relationship with the child, but in a different scenario
Stop CONTROLLING everything. It
takes up a ton of resources and your nerves if something goes wrong. Trust the universe, your family, your kids.
Let them learn how to live their own life and try to do the same to make yourself feel needed by other means.
