Do everything you can to get a man to like you before you like him.
If you stick to this rule, you can count on something more. Although, as a rule, people look at each other "symmetrically. If you sympathize with your interlocutor, there is a fairly high probability that he also sympathizes with you. Or vice versa: if he doesn't like you, he doesn't like you either.
This is how the field of your communication with him "works. If you are afraid of him, you scare him with your behavior. And vice versa, if you are relaxed, he is also relaxed. The question is who will be the first to begin. The one who first causes sympathy for himself, at this stage already has a small advantage, taking advantage of which you can increase your chances of success.
Talk about what interests the other person. This makes a lot of sense. Talk not about what is important to you, his lover, but about what interests him. That way you can gain credibility, and you will have an advantage over your opponent.
