Lovewende

2022-08-31 14:30:27 Surround yourself with people who you ultimately aspire to be.

This is both a habit and a decision. If you are unhappy with where you are or where you're heading, take a close look at the people who surround you

Chances are, they're in a similar circumstances to you, and as long as you stay in that situation, neither of you will be moving anytime soon.

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2022-08-30 17:02:53 Don't Share Your Goals

Research suggests that telling people about your big goal won’t increase the chance of succeeding at all. On the contrary, the more people you tell, the less likely that you’ll succeed.

Researchers have described the difference between people’s plans and people’s actions as the “intention-behavior gap.” The gap is the difference between what we intend to do and what we actually do. Announcing your goals seems to widen that gap.

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2022-08-29 12:32:29 Don't make someone who lives with you in your present pay the price for an experience you lived in your past.
Sometimes we react with anger to people who live among us now, but in fact we react to memories of a past gone, such as a marriage or friendship.
Be as your true nature and do not be a reaction to a previous experience, those who are with you now have no fault for them.

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2022-08-28 14:57:50 ⁣Only a moment exists between the past and the future, but it is called life.

Normally, a person spends a lot of resources making predictions about what is going to happen and how it is going to happen.
Give up global predictions of the future, live right now. You can roughly know your general vector of movement, and even have a clear plan.

But it's absolutely useless to think about it all the time without giving yourself the space of freedom.

Don't look for your happiness in some distant future so that you will very seldom be satisfied with what you have today.

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2022-08-26 20:17:57 Have you ever had a good clean of your home and felt good after?

I am sure you have experienced thinking you need to organise your environment around you and put it off for a while.

Then... you have gone for it and both during and after you have felt a feeling of accomplishment and satisfaction.

Living in an organised environment is fantastic for your mind and something that should be prioritised.

Get organising people.

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2022-08-25 15:31:44 ⁣AWARENESS

It is a trait of a truly mature and wise person, but, unfortunately, many people miss it, relying on emotionality or circumstances.

What gives this quality:
- You give maximum accountability to your actions, no emotion or situation will take you out of yourself.

- You clearly recognize your feelings and immediately understand and eliminate the cause of your bad feeling

- You rejoice in the little things. This is really important. You can walk across the bridge every day with a beautiful view, thinking about your problems, or you can stop for a moment and get a charge of positivity. Which will save you from the stress that is now at every turn!

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2022-08-24 09:22:01 If the mother knew what negative effects yelling in the face of her children had on their souls, she would have great regret.

Listen to your children sympathetically and slowly, so that you make them always turn to you in solving their problems, be kind and win their affection.

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2022-08-23 07:49:08 Love can only exist in freedom. The true lover seeks the good of his beloved which requires especially the liberation of the beloved from the lover.

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2022-08-21 20:37:57 ⁣Beware if you reach a level of power - knowledge, position, money - to not underestimate those who did not reach what you reached,

Or if you ignore them, or see yourself as superior to them, you are being tested.

Today is strength, tomorrow is weakness.

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2022-08-20 10:41:02 ⁣You know it's never fifty-fifty in a marriage. It's always seventy-thirty, or sixty-forty. Someone falls in love first. Someone puts someone else up on a pedestal. Someone works very hard to keep things rolling smoothly; someone else sails along for the ride.

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- Jodi Picoult Open / Comment