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2023-03-31 20:06:01 Why a man does not give gifts and whether he should: the opinion of a psychologist

It happens that over time, the partner ceases to pamper attention or does not do it on principle from the beginning of the relationship. What does this mean? Why a man does not give gifts? Let's find out the opinion of a psychologist.

In fact, the reasons for such behavior is enough:
1. lack of serious intentions
2. the experience of unsuccessful relations
Difficulties in translating
4. Secondary benefits

Should a man give gifts?
Psychological and social attitudes, set by society and preserved for centuries, influence ideas about the value and appropriateness of gifts. In some couples it is customary to give gifts only on holidays, and in others men and women like to please each other with presents without reason, unexpectedly.

But the main thing is that over time, your "code" of relations you form yourself. And what role in it will take surprises, gifts and other signs of attention depends only on you. Open / Comment

2023-03-31 12:33:11 Reception: "Indirect Question".

To use this method, first have an active dialogue, so that the interlocutor talks more than you do. Touch on a topic that concerns him and bring the dialogue close to your question.

Then, casually and very gently ask a couple of leading questions about your topic.

This method is used by cunning manipulators. When the person gets carried away with the conversation, he will give out the necessary information himself with all the details!

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2023-03-30 20:06:04 Relationships with your spouse cause fatigue and irritation: 8 possible reasons

1. Old psychological traumas
Unhealed trauma of one spouse (or both) can provoke feelings of inferiority, loneliness, shame.

2. Sexual traumas
Unprocessed traumatic sexual experiences very often interfere with one's ability to have a fulfilling intimate life.

3. Internalized patterns of family life

4. "Alarm bells."
No matter how charming your partner is, even at the beginning of the relationship you may notice signs of future problems.

5. Psychological disorders
Personality disorders and various addictions often lead to some form of domestic violence.

6. Chronic Negative Emotions.
Anger, anxiety, guilt, depression, fear - if such experiences arise constantly in a marriage, the person gradually dulls any feelings at all.

7. Constant monotonous complaints

8. Habitual patterns of behavior.
Bad habits are easy to pick up, and getting rid of them can be very difficult. Open / Comment

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2023-03-30 10:05:31 Is it possible to benefit from deception?

You can benefit from lying, otherwise people wouldn't use it. Lying helps to "save face" and avoid conflict. For example, when asked by his wife whether she is fat or not, it is easier for the husband to lie than to scandalize until the evening.

It is lying that allows a person to mind his own business. In a situation where the girlfriend had a child clearly not by her husband, the truth-teller would certainly tell her suspicions to her husband. But in this situation, it is better to remain silent and let the spouses to sort out the situation themselves.

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2023-03-29 20:06:01 Forced to communicate with a passive-aggressive person?
These simple techniques will help you avoid unnecessary stress and defend your boundaries.

Call things by their proper names.
"Did you really mean for it to sound so aggressive?" - This direct question can quickly bring an assailant to his senses. Caught red-handed, he is likely to respond hastily, "No, you didn't!" Then, if you like, elaborate on what's upsetting him. Offer to talk calmly and kindly about how he feels.

Ignore his outbursts.
If the person is being openly hostile to you, you don't have to be nice to them.

Show empathy and forgive.
The passive-aggressive (or aggressive) person is clearly angry and tense. It is not easy to envy him - it is not easy to live with such destructive feelings in the soul. Wish him well and set firm boundaries between you.

Offer to speak up.
This way he can open up and lay out how he feels instead of sarcasm and innuendo. Open / Comment

2023-03-29 11:58:04 Tearful Reception.

All women know that the easiest way to make a man uncomfortable is to cry.

A man is willing to do the most unreasonable requests just to stop the tears. Girls have been learning this feminine trick of manipulation since childhood - fathers are willing to do anything to soothe their beloved daughter.

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2023-03-28 20:06:01 How to prepare for an important conversation with your partner
As you prepare to open up about your feelings, keep a few important points in mind.

- Do not build expectations.
Be prepared to accept reality in all its glory, otherwise you will be angry and resentful if things do not go according to script.

- Don't set conditions
Do not ask for a commitment in return. Be prepared to accept the most unexpected explanations in return.

- Don't show aggression.
Even if you don't like his answer. No one should have to live up to your expectations. This works both ways, though.

- Don't push and don't pursue.
Allow feelings to form between you, don't pedal the situation.

- Be aware of possible reactions to tears
Remember that a woman's tears often cause men to have the opposite reaction than what we expect.

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2023-03-28 10:05:10 How not to get attached to a person?

Treat the man as a passerby. Come and go. That's fine. Let it be cruel, but it works.

Don't overestimate communication, treat it loyally and at the same time with a piss-poor attitude. Try to think about it less. Socialize with everyone around you and you'll get bored with old people quickly.

Talk less about yourself. Try to hide your secrets and secrets, listen more than talk.

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2023-03-27 20:06:01 How do you redefine stress?

Changing the way we think about stress can actually help us improve our well-being, including our mental health, as well as help us cope better with stressful situations in the future.

- Visualize the stressful situation and how you will respond to it. For example, imagine that you need to give a presentation at work.

- Think of any symptoms of stress you may be experiencing, such as a fast heartbeat.

- Welcome these feelings, don't ignore them, and realize that they are meant to help you focus and increase your energy.

- Finally, imagine using this reaction to move forward in the face of pressure. This may seem difficult at first, but with practice we can all learn to use visualization to redefine stress.

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