DeepThoughts

2021-08-26 14:00:05 You don’t have to be happy if you’re not really happy. You don’t have to laugh if all you want is to cry. You don’t have to use that mask, you could put it down and be yourself. It’s okay to be sad, you’re gonna be okay. Open / Comment

2021-08-26 09:01:38 Deep Thoughts:
The person whom you left before, is now living a better life.
Yes, the person you took for granted. Look at her bright smile. Look at those sparkling eyes.
She's glowing now.

You know what, she finally saw her worth. She's no longer looking for you.

She's no longer question, why did you left. She sleeps well at night.
She learned and she knew better.

She doesn't need you anymore.

She's had enough of your baggage.
You broke her heart.
You gave her hope, and crushed it.
You told her lies.
You ignored her when she needed you.
Do you just realize it now?

This might surprise you, but look.
She's totally fine without you. She did it all by herself.
You lost her. You've lost all the chance to be with her again.

Someone will love her the way she deserves. At that moment, it will break your heart more. You will wish that you had done better. But it's just too late now.
I'm sorry for your loss. Open / Comment

2021-08-25 19:55:29 Find someone who loves you well. Someone who never belittles you. Even in the heat of an argument. Someone who is gentle with you, but does not treat you like you are fragile. Someone who knows what you are capable of, and celebrates those pieces of you. Not someone who is intimidated by your strength. Someone who doesn’t make you feel guilty for being flawed. It is not love’s job to punish you. And remember the person you love is just as broken as you are when they fall short. No one is perfect – do not hold them to this standard. Find someone who is patient, forgiving, and apologetic. Someone who practices forgiveness freely and often. Love someone who is humble, kind, and empathetic. Common courtesy is important. Compassion is important. Kindness is important. Open / Comment

2021-08-25 14:00:05 how to move on ? — You don't ask around on how to. There's no way. You live with it, until you don't question anymore. That's when you have moved on. Open / Comment

2021-08-25 09:00:02 I cannot emphasize it enough. no one else is responsible for you but yourself. Other people you meet along the way may or may not leave an impact in your life, but what happens next is all on you. So don’t go blaming other people if you and your life didn’t turn out the way you wanted it to. Open / Comment

2021-08-24 19:29:47 You are flawed, and everyone is.

You have to let go the idea of perfection. You need to stop comparing your life with someone else. Clear your thoughts and get it together.

Allow yourself to be flawed. No one is perfect, keep that in mind. How much of your confidence have been damaged just because you're seeing someone else is doing better?
You are seeing what you are allowed to, you are not in their shoes so you never knew.

Start to focus on yourself. Recognize your own potential, have faith in your goddamn self. Show the world who you are, not how someone else present you or treat you.

Stop worrying about what others think about you. Stop allowing negativity to surround your soul. Do not let the bad stop you from discovering the good.
You need to look for the light in the dark.

It's never to late to reinvent yourself.
Choose aliveness and live your life on your own terms. All the things you desire are within reach so go after it. Slow down and take it all in.
Trust me you can do it.

Your flaws doesn't define you, it's just a part of you. You are more than that. Find your own wings, your own fire. Radiate, give love to yourself, and to the whole world. Love will come back to you. Open / Comment

2021-08-24 18:00:39 Is it okay to miss someone who hurt you badly? Is it okay to still remember them even if they seem to forget you completely?

If i tell you it's not, would you be able to erase the though of them right away?


Are you feeling pain in your chest? It's triggering isn't it? Because you have that someone.

Someone whom you loved dearly once upon a time.

Close your eyes, and take a deep breathe..

Things may not work out the way you want, but at least. They made you happy once upon a time.
And the feeling of happiness was real, even if the rest wasn't.

Maybe it was their touch that kept you warm, the arms around you, that makes you feel safe and sound.

Maybe it's their words that made you fluttered, their stupid jokes.. And their smile..

Maybe they were there for you when no one else was, listens to your rants, keep you company when you're all alone. Maybe at that time, no one else understands but them.

It's a waste of time if you keep blaming, or questioning why and why. This time, let your heart feel what it feels.

So, don't hold the tears.. Let it fall.

You miss them because you loved them. And you love them for their warmth, the love they gave you, the memories that you have built. Because if you don't, what was all that before?

Although it seems to be impossible now, you will get through this.
Your heart will shatter over and over, but it will keep beating.

The pain won't end. But it gives a great lesson. It will hurt less, when you're starting to get use to the feelings.

And.. You will be just fine.

So i gotta tell you this.
It's okay.. It's okay to allow them linger around your mind, it's okay to miss them sometimes. It's okay, to think of them, and it's okay... If you miss them.

Aren't denying feeling hurts more? Open / Comment

2021-08-23 08:02:30 Letting someone in your life again is one of the hardest things to do most especially when sorrows and pains victimized you. You are torn between crumbling the giant walls you engineered around you or not since you don’t know if that person is worth the risk. You are troubled if it will still be the same as the past. Being broken in love is one of the most painful experiences and you do not want to suffer again. But you want to try. Again. Despite the fears, worries and anxieties clouding you that it will be the same thing once more. You want to give that person a chance. Why? Because of hope. You are hopeful that it will be a much better kind of love than before. Open / Comment

2021-08-21 12:55:53 I think, when someone does not appreciate you, it doesn’t mean you’re not good enough. Not to be too positive or anything, it’s either you shine so bright they are blinded by the light. Or you are overlooked because you had it all and they weren’t ready for you yet. Open / Comment

2021-08-20 15:57:36 Can love be something you can just choose?

I mean, can’t we just choose somebody who we think will not hurt us, who we think will love us unconditionally, someone who we can rely to and trust without worrying she will hurt you or even cheat on you. I think that will be easier, I think choosing the person who we think could love us better is easier than choosing someone who doesn’t even give us attention.

That’s the thing about us, humans, we tend to choose the person who doesn’t even care, who doesn’t even look at us, and what more is that person doesn’t even feel the same way. Isn’t it unfair? I don’t know if that is even the right word. I guess loving someone doesn’t always mean it has to be mutual. I guess some of us choose the longer route and that includes pain, unrequited love, one sided feelings and devastation.

If only we can choose the one we love, if only we could make our lives easier by choosing someone who loves us more, if only the person we love loves us back, if only life could make its way to us and tell us who to love without feeling pained. If only. Open / Comment