Love psy

2022-06-10 23:57:28 Adult attachment styles
Secure
People who have a secure attachment style believe they are worthy of love and that other people are trustworthy and responsive. As a result, they are comfortable with intimacy but are also secure enough to be on their own.
Preoccupied
Those with preoccupied attachment believe they aren't worthy of love but generally feel others are supportive and accepting. Consequently, these individuals seek validation and self-acceptance through their relationships with others.
Dismissive-Avoidant
People with dismissive-avoidant attachment have a sense of their own self-worth but don't trust other people. This makes them dismissive of the value of intimacy, leading them to avoid close relationships.
Fearful-Avoidant
They believe they are unlovable and also don't trust other people to support and accept them. Because they think others will eventually reject them, they withdraw from relationships Open / Comment

2022-06-09 21:35:59 Have faith in your partner’s love for you

You have to believe that you’re worthy to be loved. Have faith in your partner’s love for you because this is where genuine trust resides. If you believe in them and how they feel about you, there will be no room for doubts and uncertainties, no room for suspicions and fear.

Building trust in your relationship involves creating a strong and genuine love for each other. Open / Comment

2022-06-08 20:49:03 did the first date go well?
You both participated equally in the conversation.

We've all been on that date. The one where the other person spends the entire time talking about themselves and never lets you get a word in, much less asks you a question.

However, after a good first date, you'll feel like you each spoke an equal amount. And after a great date, you'll feel like the other person seemed genuinely interested in what you were telling them and that you found a few mutual interests. Open / Comment

2022-06-06 23:47:02 Move on from your past first.

Do not commit to love someone new if you are still hurting from your past relationship. It is hard to commit if half of you wishes you were still with your ex. Open / Comment

2022-06-04 19:59:22 Where is this place? Open / Comment

2022-06-03 23:40:07 Listen!

Ask questions, remain engaged, and take note of what they say

I get it, talking about yourself is so fun, but your crush probably doesn't care about the time when your best friend fell in front of everyone at the mall (even though it was hilarious).

While you should, of course, share info about yourself, make sure you're also listening to your crush (not on your phone while they tell you about their siblings). Open / Comment

2022-06-02 23:14:21 Open / Comment

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2022-05-30 22:08:15 Isolation can hurt us physically

Call your grandma!

Being socially isolated and feeling lonely have seriously dire consequences on us: they make us more prone to poor mental health and can lead to serious, undesirable cardiovascular outcomes. Open / Comment

2022-05-30 22:07:55 Experiences make us happier than material gifts

If you want to give the perfect present, remember that psychological research suggests that purchasing experiences has a more lasting positive effect on people’s happiness than material objects and looking back, people will also believe to have spent their money more wisely. Open / Comment