Love psy

2022-05-09 23:32:05 For a man, love is respect

You are not his mother and not a nanny, so you do not need to give him money, look for a job for him, take loans. Respect his strength, he will come to his senses and cope with everything himself, becoming only stronger in the process.
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And I'm not saying that a man does not need to be supported. Support is just what is needed and important. But it should be just support, and not a solution to his problems for him, unless, of course, you want an affair with a child! Open / Comment

2022-05-08 23:20:17 Tips for happier friendships

1. Friends aren’t psychic and, if you’re quiet, they might think you’re busy and won’t want to bother you. __Be proactive__. Send a text and suggest some dates to get together.

2. Stop wasting time with friendships that feel superficial. The key to thriving is __human connection__, so focus on those relationships that foster a connected feeling.

3. Seek out people who are __emotionally intelligent__ and who will take risks in conversation by opening up and sharing their vulnerabilities. The best friends are not always the noisiest people or the ones who put themselves forward, but they are often the richest emotionally and will provide a deeper connection that is important for a feeling of fulfilment in friendship. Open / Comment

2022-05-07 23:18:44 Don’t play mind games

It’s not worth anyone’s time, and one (or both) of you could get hurt.

Waiting hours — or days — to text back, consistently trying to make them jealous, or ignoring them could just drive this person away.

Mind games seriously complicate matters, and navigating a crush is already difficult enough! It’s important to be honest about your feelings, especially with yourself. Open / Comment

2022-05-06 23:10:11 5 ways to prevent a fight Open / Comment

2022-05-03 22:36:56 5 steps to a better relationship

1. Express your gratitude
True gratitude lies on the heartfelt recognition of your appreciation for the other. It is when you can say to the other person how grateful you are for the things they do for you.

2. Implement a 5:1 ratio of positive vs negative interactions.
This means that for every negative interaction you have with your partner, family member or friend, you need another five positive ones to help your relationship flourish.

3. Use empathy as a way to connect.
Empathy is when we are able to shift our perspective in order to adopt that of another

4. Let go of assumptions.
One of the key points to creating an easy flowing relationship is to have open, honest conversations about all the beliefs, assumptions and expectations.

5. Have skilful conflicts.
Remember that behind every complaint there is a request, so communicate the request rather than the complaint. Open / Comment

2022-05-03 12:33:28 Finally, a decent news channel has opened on Telegram.

1) Only the main news of the day.

2) Only what will be of interest to you.

The truth and only the truth - Mass-Media News Open / Comment

2022-05-02 13:47:32 What to say when your partner is having anxiety

When you are in the moment, helping your partner manage an anxiety episode, you may be unsure of what to say. You don’t want to say anything that will make your partner more anxious, after all.
Here are some ideas of what to say in these moments:
“I’m here and I’m listening".
“I know you are feeling overwhelmed.”
“It’s going to be OK.”
“That’s a lot for you to deal with right now.”
“I know how strong you are.”
“Would you like me to sit with you?”
“I am here, and you are not alone.”
“Is there anything I can do to help?” Open / Comment

2022-04-30 19:19:35 Listen!

Ask questions, remain engaged, and take note of what they say

I get it, talking about yourself is so fun, but your crush probably doesn't care about the time when your best friend fell in front of everyone at the mall (even though it was hilarious).

While you should, of course, share info about yourself, make sure you're also listening to your crush (not on your phone while they tell you about their siblings). Open / Comment

2022-04-29 15:00:01 Five relationship rules by Sigmund Freud

One becomes bold and self-confident when one acquires the conviction that he is loved.

We do not choose each other randomly. We only meet those who already exist in our subconscious.

We are never so defenseless as when we love and never so hopelessly unhappy as when we lose the object of love or its love.

Why don't we fall in love with someone new every month? Because we would have to lose a piece of our own heart when we break up.

Each person has desires that he doesn't tell others and desires that he won't admit even to himself. Open / Comment

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