Psychology 💡

2022-11-27 20:10:06 Unintelligible words.

This trick is effective because your opponent will be embarrassed to ask for the meaning of terms, as it shows your superiority over him.

Since your opponent is afraid to interrogate, there is nothing to argue about - you win. Open / Comment

2022-11-27 17:06:07 Stupor, freezing, depersonalization: defense mechanisms against shock

Many people know about protective reactions to a stressful situation, which are conventionally called "hit/run/freeze. Let's talk about numbness, which is often how people automatically react to danger.

If there is no way to escape.
Someone can mobilize, his body instantly comes to the readiness "fight or flight. But if a person can't fight, can't run, he falls into dissociation, freezes.

Inhibiting emotion
In the background of shock, a person's emotional perception may be impaired. Yes, he lives as usual, walking, breathing, doing everyday things. But he feels nothing. He has an emotional emptiness, a pit, the whole world seems to be colored gray.

How else dissociation can manifest itself
1. amnesia
2. Normality
3. Flashbacks Open / Comment

2022-11-27 12:08:06 Don't promise anything!

Fulfilling someone's request is a great way to build relationships. And we need to be helpful in strengthening existing contacts.

But when you are asked to promise something... When fulfilling even a small request, be diplomatic, say "I'll try/do my best, etc." You don't want to fall into the category of people who don't keep their promises, do you? Don't get caught up in that hook! Open / Comment

2022-11-26 20:02:06 Become a mystery.

Listen more and don't tell much about yourself. If you are a mystery to a man, he will be drawn to you, he will be interested in communicating with you.

And by listening carefully to what the object of manipulation says, you will learn more about him and be able to arouse trust. After that, the object will be much more willing to give in to your manipulation. Open / Comment

2022-11-26 17:07:11 "You can't do that": 8 things that won't ruin, but will only make your relationship stronger

Many believe there is a formula for a happy marriage: if you don't go "over the flags," you can celebrate a golden wedding anniversary with your first and only partner in 50 years.

However, as psychologists warn, there is no such thing as a one-size-fits-all relationship. The couple is not doomed to failure, if, for example, the spouses sleep in separate beds or go on vacation separately. Moreover, in some situations, to break such family "taboos" - is to save the marriage, not destroy it.

1. Sleeping apart
Discussing exes
3. Flirting with others
4. Masturbating
5. Taking a break from each other
6. Going to bed in a quarrel
7. Discuss financial matters
8. Having "skeletons in closets" Open / Comment

2022-11-26 10:45:06 Speak slowly.

Speaking fast often causes negative associations. Your interlocutor may think you are nervous or unsure of what you are saying.

So try to exude calmness and be moderate in your speech. People tend to trust those who speak slowly and deliberately. Open / Comment

2022-11-25 21:27:25 One young guy, yesterday's student, made $588,000 on Telegram in the last year
- Yes, his name is Nick, many people already know him!

How? - you ask?
Very simple - he creates Telegram channels (like this one you are in now) and sells ads in them.
He used the money he makes to buy an apartment in Bali and another in Germany. And he has no plans to stop there!

This is the reality of the 21st century! To earn the dream and live like a «star», you do not have to go to a disliked job every day - it's enough to have a smartphone in your hands!

What do you need to do?
1. Choose a channel theme (click)
2. Create a channel (click)
3. Start selling ads (how?)

All this is possible without investment, skills or extra knowledge (I'll tell you everything )!

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Nick | About Telegram Open / Comment

2022-11-25 17:05:06 Communication tricks.

Disagreement: Research has shown that when the person you are talking to disagrees with you, you need to speak faster so that the person has less time to process what you are saying.

How do you get agreement? People who experience fear and then relief tend to respond positively afterwards. For example, people who heard an invisible police officer whistle as they crossed the street were more likely to agree to respond to a survey than those who heard nothing. Open / Comment

2022-11-25 17:00:59 Jealousy, Suspicion, and Overprotective: 8 Signs of Paranoia - Check Yourself

Experiencing strong feelings for the person, we close our eyes to many things. Suffering from jealousy and constant control, we write off everything to the peculiarities of the partner. However, when the fear of treason is only one item on the list of dangers, it is reason to think about the presence of paranoid personality disorder.

SIGNS OF PARANOIA
1. Suspiciousness
2. Tendency to generalize
3. withdrawal from loved ones
4. Jealousy
5. Secrecy
6. Aggressiveness
7. A state of "readiness".
8. Hyperprotective Open / Comment

2022-11-25 12:01:53 How do you remember a person?

Our memories are fickle. We tend to remember the beginning and the end of something, while the middle remains a blur.

Try not to be in the middle to make an impression. When you meet a new person, be first or last. The same can be applied to job interviews.

If you're going on a date, try to pick the beginning or end of the day. And, being on a date, try to impress at the beginning or end of the date. Open / Comment