Psychology 💡

2022-11-19 15:02:05 Do you know how much money the owner of this channel you're on now made in the previous month?

All the secret information about this and more is here Open / Comment

2022-11-19 12:04:06 Method: Labeling.

Using this method, the manipulator insults the third person while talking about them. From the amount of negative information the manipulator has expressed, everyone around them begins to think badly of the person, even though they may never have met him or her in their lives, or they stop believing the person if he or she is a mutual acquaintance.

This is how the manipulator achieves his goal. It affects other people's perception of that person, and now they will think badly of them, won't be invited to company, or support their ideas. Open / Comment

2022-11-18 20:15:05 Manipulation of guilt.

Probably the most common manipulation because of the extreme susceptibility of many people to guilt, which is used to its full potential by various unscrupulous characters.

Example: "I thought you were different," "Why are you so cruel?", "You made my blood pressure spike," "You drove me crazy and I got drunk," "You psychologically traumatized me as a kid and now all my problems are because of you. "You made me happy and I was sad. Now I'm in a bad mood because of you." Open / Comment

2022-11-18 17:15:06 Why men do not accept gifts: 5 main reasons

1. The desire to remain independent
A man doesn't want gifts because he sees them as a threat, something that can make him vulnerable.

2. Financial difficulties
Quite often it is easier for us not to accept a gift if we can't give anything in return.

3. difficult childhood
A childhood which passed without much "pampering" and shopping, imposes a mark on the person - for him a gift becomes something strange, unusual.

4. Psychological traumas
Maybe once your partner was given something unpleasant or joked about with the gift.

5. Unwillingness to spend on yourself
The partner feels uncomfortable, because his beloved could have pleased himself, but instead spent on him. Open / Comment

2022-11-18 12:50:07 Manipulation of a sense of duty.

Example: "I raised you, I haven't slept nights, and you can't do what I ask?", "Yes, I drink, but who else will take care of me?"

Where will this manipulation lead to: This manipulation leads to the formation of co-dependency - the habit of taking care of another to the detriment of yourself and your interests, getting satisfaction from feeling needed and from the illusion of control. Open / Comment

2022-11-17 20:12:06 How not to get attached to a person?

Treat the man as a passerby. Come and go. That's fine. Let it be cruel, but it works.

Don't overestimate communication, treat it loyally and at the same time with a piss-poor attitude. Try to think about it less. Socialize with everyone around you and you'll get bored with old people quickly.

Talk less about yourself. Try to hide your secrets and secrets, listen more than talk. Open / Comment

2022-11-17 17:08:06 There are eight billion of us! Should we be afraid that the resources of the planet will not be enough for everyone?

The United Nations has announced the birth of the eight billionth inhabitant of the earth. Obviously, this moment is very tentative - it is unlikely that anyone can actually count everyone, including the inhabitants of Africa and the densely populated countries of Asia. But a symbolic number has been named, and the milestone of 8 billion has been crossed. Open / Comment

2022-11-17 12:11:06 The vilification of a person.

The essence of this manipulation is to blacken a person in the eyes of others. And it doesn't matter in what way.

You can point out any mistake or defect: wrong accentuation of words, untidy appearance or anything else. For example: "first dress like a human being, and then come up with your own advice. It's a popular method, and it works well! Open / Comment

2022-11-16 20:01:15 How to make a man fall in love with you?

After you have had a good time with a person, disappear for a while. Postpone the next meeting, don't answer immediately, wait for a pause.

Pretend you have more important things to do at the moment. Just don't go overboard or overdo it. About two/three days will be enough for the person to start thinking about you and miss you. Open / Comment

2022-11-16 17:04:06 Love in a mature way: how to communicate to make the relationship stronger - 3 rules

1. AWARENESS
Becoming friends with your feelings is the first step to creating a climate in which two can look into each other's inner world and gently move toward each other

2. COURAGE
It takes wisdom and courage to recognize what is going on inside of us without succumbing to the reactions of the directly survival-oriented limbic brain and their consequences

3. OPENNESS.
John Amodeo cites Marshall Rosenberg's method of nonviolent communication as one useful approach to communication Open / Comment