Psychology 💡

2022-10-29 22:54:49 Increased sensitivity: what are the pluses?

At first glance it seems that highly sensitive people have a hard time in today's world, where cruelty, selfishness and cynicism rule. However, this feature of perception - a rare gift, which endows the owner with many advantages. Let's find out what hypersensitivity is and how such people live.

Surely you have met a highly sensitive person, just did not realize that your partner, friend, neighbor or colleague has a heightened perception. You may be one of those people yourself. What makes them different? Open / Comment

2022-10-28 11:10:06 What keeps us from healing childhood trauma: 5 obstacles

Not everyone is fortunate enough to grow up with an accepting and loving mother. The wounds of childhood leave a lifelong imprint. Peg Streep, author of The Unloved Daughter, advises us not to wait for a change in parents, but to start healing with ourselves and tells us what keeps us from getting there.

1. Hoping for a "magic wand."
2. Unrealistic ideas about healing
3. Influence of intermittent reinforcement
4. Guilt and shame
5. Self-doubt Open / Comment

2022-10-27 17:25:06 Cause and effect relationship.

Commanding people will help to set a cause-effect relationship. Suppose, to increase students' motivation, you can say that you can perform the task after the concept of the general principle of problem solving.

Increase employees' motivation to complete a report on time can be increased by leaving for lunch half an hour earlier. The unconscious will pick up on the "timely report" and "leave early for lunch" connection.
This method works in personal relationships as well. Open / Comment

2022-10-27 12:20:11 How to restore the relationship with a loved one

Step one: try as much as possible to remember or write down what words, emotions and expressions the person operates when explaining the reasons for breaking up with you.

Step Two: Use the method of content analysis. You need to "find" as many words as possible that the person with whom you want to have a relationship, often uses in his speech. They expose our unconscious, which is what we pay the most attention to. By using these same words while talking to the person, you can step by step rekindle their interest in your interaction.

Step three: Realize that you have more than one attempt to rekindle your relationship with your loved one. Imagine that each time you make an effort to do so, you are reducing the gap between you step by step. Restoring a relationship is painstaking work, but if you really want to do it, be strong and patient. Open / Comment

2022-10-26 23:33:03 Find out your horoscope for today!














Find out what the stars advise?

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2022-10-26 12:15:06 How do I win an argument?

Remain calm and show with all your appearance that you are confident in what you say.

If your opponent gets aggressive, show him that his point of view requires more proof than mere emotion.

When your opponent starts showing excessive emotion, tell him, "Can you start making worthwhile arguments today besides yelling and emotion?" Open / Comment

2022-10-25 20:10:06 Compliment - criticism - compliment.

Sometimes our critical comments offend those around us. For such cases I suggest this scheme.

How does it work? When you cover criticism with nice words on both sides, that's exactly how you can get your point across as painlessly as possible.

Use this formula, and you'll be surprised how easily you'll be able to deliver your critical comments. Open / Comment

2022-10-25 18:39:40 A Trending feed appeared in Telegram

All the most discussed posts, popular videos and Internet trends are now instantly posted to special channel

Now do not miss anything. Use it: @en_teleg Open / Comment

2022-10-25 13:05:06 Give me a pat on the shoulder.

Friendship: During a greeting or during a conversation, pat your opponent on the shoulder unobtrusively. Do it as if you were old friends.

Even if you are practically strangers to this person, his zone of trust will automatically add a new member in the form of you. Open / Comment

2022-10-24 20:05:06 How not to give away your lies?

Mimicry: Don't look away, because it will look suspicious. But at the same time, it is not necessary to look clearly into the pupils either. It is better to look at the interlocutor's face as a whole.

Smile while communicating, because it makes a person like you and gives an impression that you are telling the truth. Also watch your hands, because in an unconscious state a liar often touches his buttons, rubs his own clothes or scratches himself. Open / Comment