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2022-06-01 18:00:13 ​How to turn cooking and cleaning from a chore into a shared pastime. Part 1.

Ideally, it is worth discussing the division of responsibilities before starting a relationship or marriage. Whether partners will be happy and satisfied with the marriage depends on the division of duties.

So how do you divide responsibilities so it's not boring? Here's a quick checklist:

Share feelings and expectations. If the partners didn't discuss the division of responsibilities beforehand and now one of them is suffering because of it, it's worth having a quiet conversation.

Make a list. You need to write down all the chores the partners do around the house, analyze the list and divide the duties based on each partner's personal interests. For example, someone will cook because he wants to imagine himself as Gordon Ramsay in the process, and someone likes to lay out clothes and wash dishes because it's a kind of meditation. The things that neither partner wants to do are worth taking turns doing, so that no one gets hurt.

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2022-05-30 09:00:13 Join us for more -> @psychologiesi Open / Comment

2022-05-29 18:00:08 ​Theory of Reality Tunnels

According to the theory, humans see the world through the filters of their experiences and beliefs. Upbringing, education, all the joys and failures that have ever happened to us are the building material for the tunnel of reality. And that's why people react differently to the same things.

Case in point:
Take Leonardo da Vinci's legendary painting, "Gioconda." As you look at it, one person will notice the enigmatic smile, another will notice the mathematical perfection in it. And the third will see a complete woman without eyebrows. And none of this trio is wrong - they all live in their tunnels and sincerely believe they are right.

And all because, according to the theory of tunnels, there is no single truth. And cannot exist. Escaping from your tunnel is difficult. It is like a well-trodden path: comfortable and familiar.

Each exit from the tunnel is unusual, dangerous and unpleasant - but it's in these moments that real creativity happens, in these moments you can become a creator who creates a completely new, unique reality. Don't lose this opportunity!

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2022-05-27 18:00:09 Men and women grow up differently

Many of us have heard the popular notion that men act like children even as adults. Some also believe that it is women who bring maturity to a relationship with their partner. Therefore, scientists decided to check how true these statements are. It turned out that public opinion was not far from the truth.

According to the study, the brains of both men and women eventually develop the same abilities used in everyday life. But men often show a delay in the long-term development of functional networks compared to women. This is where the view has emerged that men mature later in life. Women, on the other hand, are more likely to show premature deterioration of the aforementioned networks.

Thanks to science, I can state with certainty that the brains of men and women do work differently, which explains our behavioral patterns and degree of emotional maturity.

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2022-05-26 18:00:11 Why do we sacrifice ourselves for the benefit of others?

The state of self-sacrifice exists in our culture, and for this reason many people often neglect their own comfort in preference to that of others.

The reason for this is low self-esteem; people think they are not good enough to get the best of themselves. The surest way to get out of this state is to prioritize your every-minute desires and interests.

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