The Sun & Her Flowers

2021-02-01 14:48:09 I hope I'm not depressing anyone with my posts. A tribute had to be made. I'll be back writing really soon though. I love you all Open / Comment

2021-02-01 14:47:32 If you know how much I love the sun, it wouldnt be surprising that I absolutely love the color yellow. I thought I adapted it in my teens or something but I was actually more obsessed with the color as a kid. Everyone made fun of me for it, saying it was too bright and what not. I have this vivid memory of Mom telling my uncle that I have a weird liking to yellow things. He looked at me and I know he thought it was ridiculous yet he defended me. 'Yellow is a good color. What are you mocking her for?' followed by a smile. That's my favorite memory of him among several others. He's my favorite uncle. Always had my back. Always.
I still see him by my doorway smiling at me and my cousins as they rushed to gather their things. I still see where he used to sit in my dad's room. I still remember that bold tone in his voice. Even the day he took me home from campus and we had lunch on the way. Him telling me to go to sleep cause I spent the night by his side. I hope I never forget these. Because now he lives in the memories. Rest in peace. Open / Comment

2021-01-28 07:26:11 Happy birthday legend Open / Comment

2021-01-26 15:45:31 Honestly, most of us are already traumatized. If I see a man walking on the same street I'm on or sitting somewhere, I anticipate some sort of insult or humiliation. And if one day catcalling was no longer a thing, I wouldn't be able to forget it and just move on. So many of my sisters out there feel the same, and so many more have experienced things I can't begin to imagine. I'm not sure if we can reverse this, but our future generations deserve a better world. Our daughters and baby sisters shouldn't go through whatever this is. Open / Comment

2021-01-26 15:38:04 Hey Unihorse Hide my Identity I need to vent ሰላም እንዴት ናቹ የአብዛኛው ሴት ችግር የሆነዉን እኔ ላይ ግን እየባሰ የመጣዉን ልንገራችሁ ። መንገድ ስናልፍ የምትላከፉ ወንዶች ኡፍ በፈጣሪ ሰላማችንን ነዉ የምትነፍጉን ለእናንተ እንደመዝናኛ ወይ ልምድ ይሆናል ለኛ ግን የቀን ዉሎአችንንም ጭምር ነዉ የሚያበላሸዉ አካበድሽ እንዳትሉ without hearing the whole story… Open / Comment

2021-01-26 15:36:13 Hey Unihorse
Hide my Identity
I need to vent
ሰላም እንዴት ናቹ የአብዛኛው ሴት ችግር የሆነዉን እኔ ላይ ግን እየባሰ የመጣዉን ልንገራችሁ ። መንገድ ስናልፍ የምትላከፉ ወንዶች ኡፍ በፈጣሪ ሰላማችንን ነዉ የምትነፍጉን ለእናንተ እንደመዝናኛ ወይ ልምድ ይሆናል ለኛ ግን የቀን ዉሎአችንንም ጭምር ነዉ የሚያበላሸዉ አካበድሽ እንዳትሉ without hearing the whole story
Am kindda skinny so the things i keep hearing from the boys is that ምነዉ ቤትሽ እህል የለም አንቺ ወስፋት ንፋስ እንዳይወስድሽ ነይ እኔ ላወፍርሽ እናትሽ ለብቻዋ ነዉ ምትበላዉ አንቺ ምርቃት ከአንቺም ብሶ መንቀባረርሽ ።ብቻ በየቀኑ ማይሉት የለም አነሱ ያንን ብለዉ ይሳሳቃሉ እኔ ቀን ሙሉ ያሉኝን እያሰብኩ ሙዴ ይበላሻል ቆንጅዬ ቀጭዬ የኔ ማር ሁሉ ሲሉ እግሬ ነዉ ሚብረከረከዉ በቃ ማንም እንዲያሞግሰኝም እንዲያሳንሰኝ አልፈልግም earphone ሳላረግ መንቀሳቀስ የማይታሰብ ነዉ አሁንማ ማስክ መጣ በቃ ሁሉ ነገሬን የሸፈነኝ ያህል ስለሚመስለኝ ማስክ አታዉልቁ ቢባል ምን ልሆን ነዉ እስከማለት ደርሻለሁ። አንድ የሰዉነቷ ቅርፅ ሚያምር ጓደኛየ በቃ ቂጧ እንዲቀንስ ስፖርት ትሰራለች we are not that much of an attention seekers we just want to be normal ምን ሆና ነዉ ሰዉ ለshape ሲሰራ ብትሉ am going to be bold and tell u what they said to her in a crowed ያንቺ አምስ ምን ያህል ሊጥም እንደሚችል and ታክሲ የተሰለፈዉ ሁሉ እሷን ማየት ጀመረ she couldn't walk
She nearly cried ቂጥ መማታት እንኳን ሼፒዋን አይደለም እኔም ማምለጥ አልቻልኩም። my hair is long ena ፀጉር ሁላ ይጎትታሉ። ፀየም ያለች ጓደኛዬንማ ሴጣን ነዉ ምትመስይዉ ጥቁረትሽ ብለዋታል ለሰርግ አጭር ቀሚስ ከለበስን የስድም እና የለከፋ ናዳው ። አንዱ ጓደኛዬ እማ ሴቶች ሲለከፉ ይወዳሉ አለኝ ሊኖሩ ይችላሉ እናግን here me and my friends are losing our freedom በፈጠራችሁ ምንም አትበሉን በነፃነት እንንቀሳቀስ
How i wish i were a boy

Vent Here Open / Comment

2021-01-17 20:44:29 I hate coming around with excuses to why I haven't been posting. I know I've done it several times this year. I apologize for that. Call this a life update cause y'all know more about me than most of the people close to me

The past couple of months have been kinda tough and busy for me. I'm about to start school again plus I had family emergencies to get to. Most were emotionally taxing and I can't write unless I emotionally connect to you guys. Or to the victims of the problems I write about.

What about now? Did things get better? Not really. I lost someone really important and it's going to take time to recover from that. Not to mention my already declining mental health. I don't even reply to most of the texts I receive anymore, I will eventually but it's hard sometimes. I'm sorry for that too.

I'll return when I feel like I can write, or at least deserve to affect people's emotions like I used to. I hope you're staying safe. I hope this didn't make you feel sad...and whatever's going on I hope it gets better for you. I really do.

Sincerely, your admin. Open / Comment

2020-12-20 13:07:55 That will be all on procrastination for today. The topic is huge and I tried writing down the major issues I could think of. Any suggestions, comments, ideas...you can message me whenever.

I won't be posting for the rest of the day so that everyone can read and catch up. In the mean time, share the content you like with people you know. It could really help someone out.

Have a blessed Sunday. I love you all. Open / Comment

2020-12-20 12:46:55 •Things to Remember

*My advice won't always work. Try to take notes and do whatever suits you.
*Procrastination is not the same thing as laziness. It is most definitely NOT a choice. People who experience it cannot help but delay tasks. They keep doing it uncomsciously and constantly ask themselves 'Why am I doing this?'. It affects more people than you can imagine, and can be reversed with effort.
*Take care of yourself. You don't have to dive into work right away. Take constant breaks, do what makes you happy, and look after your mental health.
*Does anyone remember that cheesy line teachers or parents use? 'Your brain is like a muscle, the more you read/work the stronger it will get.' There is just SO much truth in that. Considering the pandemic and all, you could have strayed away from your work mode and might struggle with getting back on track. You don't run a full marathon on the first day of practice. It's a few meters at first. The same applies to you.
*Have room for failure. Some days it will happen, some days it won't. And that's okay. You'll bounce back. You're a warrior.
*For people that feel a lack of energy. What you are going through will not miraculously go away and give you your vigor back. It could take time, depending on what it is. But in the mean time, you do have the chance to be a much better version of yourself. That is in your power. I haven't felt energetic or motivated for months now. But as of yesterday, I'm trying to actually fight whatever state I am in and not give up for once. Because I am worth it. The people that believe in me are worth it. And so are you.
*It is now or never. Do you realize how short life is? And that we don't know when exactly it would be over? You have enough time to make your dreams come true. It's now or never.
*I believe in you. I know you got this.
*You can talk to me if you ever want to.

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2020-12-20 12:12:55 I know that this is a video made by a medical channel but it still applies to everyone. I also promise that it isn't one of those motivational videos you see on YouTube. Hope you learn something.



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