UPSC MOTIVATION STATUS 🎯🇮🇳

2023-04-08 21:00:38 Abundant people never argue in queues

They don't write nasty things on social networks, or insult their colleagues, or lose their temper in family life.
— If they need something, they ask.
— If they feel uncomfortable, they talk about it. Open / Comment

2023-04-08 14:00:45 The desire to control everyone and everything all the time

This desire can be dictated by perfectionism, egocentrism, lack of trust and a variety of other reasons.

But all these consequences have a common cause - attachment issues coming from childhood: at some point the child ceased to feel secure around his parents. He or she stopped trusting this world and feeling relaxed.

Getting older, such people rely only on themselves. It would seem that this is absolutely fine.

But there is a flip side of the coin: even when they need help, they never ask for it, being afraid to admit their weaknesses. Such adults live in a state of continuous tension always expecting the worst. Open / Comment

2023-04-07 21:40:04 Mood swing

It's all about those rapid shifts in mood that are hard to control.

When does it become a problem?
At the moment then our usual ways of self-recovery stop working.

How to deal with it?
Check your health, specifically your hormone levels. If everything is all right with the tests, go to a psychologist. Open / Comment

2023-04-07 14:00:48 Do you want to be happy? DO NOT be patient!

From generation to generation, women have been taught to be agreeable .
In other words, to be the ones who tolerate what they don't like, what doesn't satisfy them. Those who betray themselves over and over again just to please the man next to them in order not to end up alone.

Well, it's high time to start listening to your heart and showing your FEELINGS!
As well as fulfilling your desires!
Put yourself first!
Say yes to what your soul wants!

This is where your revival begins! From this moment, you will wake up. This is what self-love is all about! Open / Comment

2023-04-06 21:00:37 Worrying about making the right decision?

Try the following technique:
Imagine you've chosen the first option (of the two you can't decide between), take a piece of paper and try to describe how your life might turn out after making this decision.

Imagine you've chosen the second option. Similarly, describe how your life might turn out in this case.

Anticipate questions: "But how can I know?", "What if I croak disaster?" and so on. You can't know, but your inner being can! It has all the information about the different scenarios of your life, based on different choices.

So turn off your mind, your brain, and just give power to your hand. Reread both your "essays" and find your actual path Open / Comment

2023-04-06 14:00:53 If you want to be happy, stop controlling EVERYTHING.

No, I'm not calling you for chaos.
Just stop demanding anything from your loved ones and persuading them that things should be the way you want them to be.

You've been asking your husband to fix a leaking faucet for three months, but it led to nothing - so you get annoyed.
Or, for example, you ask your son to turn off the computer, but he doesn't quit the game all day long - you panic .

The key is that as long as you push someone, nothing will change. In the first case it is important to focus attention on yourself, in the second - on the relationship with the child, but in a different scenario

Stop CONTROLLING everything. It takes up a ton of resources and your nerves if something goes wrong. Trust the universe, your family, your kids. Let them learn how to live their own life and try to do the same to make yourself feel needed by other means. Open / Comment

2023-04-05 21:00:37 Unreliable partner

The unreliable partners shift responsibility for their lives to others. So the OTHER has to take care of them, meet their needs, think of them, and share some resources.
Even better if he or she gives ALL the personal resources

The unreliable people tend to blame others, make claims, accuse, insult and force the victim to act in a way contrary to their own interests, demand, as well as appeal to the other's sense of duty, covering up their own plans that way.

Such a person will never discuss his or her goals, since to achieve something, one should give something away. And the unreliable partner is not going to lose anything he or she owns. That's why manipulating others is hidden by the words "you have to", "everyone lives this way", "it's hard for everyone", "you shall" Open / Comment

2023-04-05 19:01:06 The hard truth: US banks are collapsing, European banks are getting closer to collapse. And crypto continues to grow.

At the same time, 78% of the population still doesn't know how cryptocurrencies work! And they're losing a cool opportunity to save and grow their savings.

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2023-04-05 14:00:49 Mood Swing

Every other client now comes to me with this problem. The regression therapy method works very well in this case.
A mood swing is a sudden or intense change in emotional state that is really difficult to control.

When does this become a problem?
At the moment when our usual ways of self-recovery stop working.

How to deal with it?
Check your health, specifically your hormone levels. Open / Comment

2023-04-04 21:00:30 Hit, run, freeze!

Actually, these are the default settings of our psyche when reacting to stress.
Our brain can be divided into three basic units: the reptilian brain, the emotional limbic brain, and the neocortex.

The reptile brain is composed of the brainstem that develops in utero and manages the life support functions. It's responsible for our "freeze" response. This is when fear makes our legs go weak.

The emotional limbic brain is the mammalian brain that develops in the first 5-6 years after birth. It is responsible, in particular, for the "hit and run" reaction. In general, it includes any active reaction to danger.

The prefrontal cortex (frontal lobes) is responsible for planning and predicting, perceiving the time and context and controlling things. So during a crisis that is perceived as dangerous, this important part of the brain shuts down.

And the body switches to the "hit and run" or "freeze" mode. Does this behavior sound familiar to you? Open / Comment